The worker tried to explain that the pigs could just be kept out of reach of the toddler and maybe the toddler shouldn't be playing with guinea pigs anyway (except she said it much more diplomatically), but the woman would have none of it. She signed the papers and the guinea pigs came upstairs to me.
"Is it all right if she says goodbye?" The woman asked.
"Of course," I replied, because even though I think you're a terrible person, I'm not going to take it out on your kid.
The little girl came in and said sadly, "Bye, Swiffer. Bye, Sparkles."
I told her she could pet them if she wanted.
"If they'll let you touch them," The woman said with a sniff. Justifying it, making the guinea pigs the bad guys. That's classy.
The girl stroked them gently, just the way guinea pigs like to be stroked. The pigs nuzzled up to her, clearly having been well loved.
I have seen a few animals surrendered. I'm only a volunteer so I haven't really seen that many, but every time it pisses me off and then I swear under my breath for a while and get on with things.
But this was just so cold. What is that woman teaching her child? That it's ok to discard living things, just because they're inconvenient? That if something isn't perfect, it's ok to give it away?
Those guinea pigs were three years old. They had them for three whole years. That little girl loved them and they were clearly fond of her. She will never forget leaving them behind, while her mother shuffled her off to look at the cute freaking kittens.
I'm worried about that little girl and what she learned that day. I'm worried about whether she's still sad or whether a distraction has lead her to forget her furry friends, whether she's learned not to get attached to pets and do away with them when they cause the slightest of problems.
I should be used to it, but I'm still appalled at how callous people can be.
7 comments:
Oh, this story is heartbreaking, but you've written an amazing post that should be required reading for all potential small animal adopters!
I'm worried about the kitten... which you'll probably see (pregnant) sometime next year. Nasty woman - her child sounded gentle so perhaps the little girl is learning from someone else.
This made me tear up-stupid woman!
Molly - thank you!
selkie - Oh, they weren't adopting adopting a kitten, they were just looking at how cute they were.
And if they had taken a kitten, it wouldn't have left the shelter unspayed :)
Swiffer is gorgeous! Clearly these GPs deserve better than to have an asshat like her as an owner. They will get a great family in no time! :)
This woman is teaching her child that when she gets too old and feeble to take care of herself it's ok for the daughter to stuff her in an old age home and forget about her - one of those sketchy old age homes that you read about in the papers.......
My girls... they have grown a lot since then.
Still happy & healthy <3
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